Anti social Quote by Jean Liedloff
“Our parents, our tribesman, our authority figures, clearly expect us to be bad or anti-social or greedy or selfish or dirty or destructive or self-destructive. Our social nature is such that we tend to meet the expectations of our elders. Whenever this reversal took place and our elders stopped expecting us to be social and expected us to be anti-social, just to put it in gross terms, that's when the real fall took place. And we're paying for it dearly.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Continuum Concept, Jean Liedloff, 1975
When elders reverse expectations, society’s social fabric unravels, causing personal and collective suffering.
In simple terms: Reversed expectations damage social harmony.
Key Takeaway
Align expectations with human nature.
Themes
society
expectations
social health
Mood
concerned
analytical
Type
critical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parenting
- education
- community building
- policy making
Key Concepts
anthropology
psychology
culture
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations need reevaluation?
- How can we restore social harmony?
A Different Perspective
Changing deep‑rooted expectations is difficult.
