Counselors Quote by Jay E. Adams
““When counselors take clients seriously, they usually respond quickly, pouring out problems, failures and sins. Others who minimize such comments frequently succeed only in pushing material back down inside the client again. Clients understandably do not want to reveal themselves to someone who won’t take them seriously. Many clients receive some help almost immediately from the fact that someone at last has taken them seriously. Taking people seriously about their sins is an important way to give them hope.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Competent Counselor, 1970
Taking clients seriously fosters hope and rapid progress.
In simple terms: Serious listening helps.
Listen with seriousness.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- support groups
- crisis intervention
- coaching
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can counselors show seriousness without judgment?
- What practices build trust quickly?
Clients may feel judged if seriousness is perceived as criticism.