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Counselors Quote by Jay E. Adams

“When counselors take clients seriously, they usually respond quickly, pouring out problems, failures and sins. Others who minimize such comments frequently succeed only in pushing material back down inside the client again. Clients understandably do not want to reveal themselves to someone who…” quote by Jay E. Adams
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““When counselors take clients seriously, they usually respond quickly, pouring out problems, failures and sins. Others who minimize such comments frequently succeed only in pushing material back down inside the client again. Clients understandably do not want to reveal themselves to someone who won’t take them seriously. Many clients receive some help almost immediately from the fact that someone at last has taken them seriously. Taking people seriously about their sins is an important way to give them hope.””

Jay E. Adams

About This Quote

Source Book: Competent Counselor, 1970

Taking clients seriously fosters hope and rapid progress.

In simple terms: Serious listening helps.

Key Takeaway

Listen with seriousness.

Themes

counseling empathy hope

Mood

empathetic encouraging

Type

clinical educational

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • support groups
  • crisis intervention
  • coaching

Key Concepts

Therapeutic alliance client empowerment

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can counselors show seriousness without judgment?
  • What practices build trust quickly?
A Different Perspective

Clients may feel judged if seriousness is perceived as criticism.

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