““eighteen-year-old babysitter, he shouted back, “There are seven billion people in this world, all trying to make sense of their lives; who are you to judge me?” He didn’t really believe he was justified, but he felt his integrity was under assault and rushed to protect it. He and his wife spent days verbally clawing at each other, as you and your partner may do, but their views over time turned out to be less polarized than they seemed. Tom agreed to see a couples””