Benefits Quote by Janet Malcolm
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“[Y]ou never come right out and admit you have stretched the rules for your own benefit. You do it and shut up about it, and hope you don't get caught, because if you are caught no one or no one who has any sense will come forward and say he has done the same thing himself.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Journalist and the Murderer, Janet Malcolm, 1990
People often bend rules for personal gain while denying it, hoping secrecy protects them, yet truth eventually surfaces.
In simple terms: People cheat and hide it, expecting to avoid blame.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and own your actions.
Themes
ethics
integrity
self‑deception
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
advice
observational
When to use this quote
- workplace
- politics
- personal relationships
- legal matters
Key Concepts
social psychology
moral rationalization
Questions to Reflect On
- What rules have you stretched?
- How does secrecy affect trust?
A Different Perspective
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