Forgive Quote by Jane Smiley
““So all I have is the knowledge that I saw! That I saw without being afraid and without turning away, and that I didn’t forgive the unforgivable. Forgiveness is a reflex for when you can’t stand what you know. I resisted that reflex. That’s my sole, solitary, lonely accomplishment.””
About This Quote
The narrator chose not to forgive, seeing forgiveness as a reflex that would betray personal truth, making solitude a personal achievement.
In simple terms: Refusing forgiveness can be a personal stance.
Consider the cost of holding grudges.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal conflict
- moral dilemmas
- self‑reflection
- healing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does forgiveness mean to you?
- Can solitude be healthy?
Unforgiveness may cause lingering pain.