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Disappoint Quote by Jane Horrocks

“I think that if you idealise someone for so long, they can only disappoint and I wouldn't want to be disappointed by those people.” quote by Jane Horrocks
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“I think that if you idealise someone for so long, they can only disappoint and I wouldn't want to be disappointed by those people.”

Jane Horrocks

About This Quote

Source Interview: The Guardian, 2015

Idealizing people sets unrealistic expectations, leading to inevitable disappointment.

In simple terms: Putting people on pedestals causes hurt.

Key Takeaway

Keep expectations realistic.

Themes

expectations disappointment idealization

Mood

cautious analytical

Type

philosophical self‑help

When to use this quote

  • friendships
  • romantic relationships
  • celebrity fandom

Key Concepts

psychology relationships emotional health

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who have you idealized and why?
  • Can you appreciate flaws without losing admiration?
A Different Perspective

Idealization can also inspire growth if balanced.

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