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Burden Quote by Jane Hamilton

“I have given up on speech with the Rev; there is no use explaining that you have to learn where your pain is. You have to burrow down and find the wound, and if the burden of it is too terrible to shoulder you have to shout it out; you have to shout for help. My trust, even down in that dark place…” quote by Jane Hamilton
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““I have given up on speech with the Rev; there is no use explaining that you have to learn where your pain is. You have to burrow down and find the wound, and if the burden of it is too terrible to shoulder you have to shout it out; you have to shout for help. My trust, even down in that dark place I carry, is that some person will come running. And then finally the way through grief is grieving.””

Jane Hamilton

About This Quote

Source Interview: The New Yorker, 2023

Grief requires confronting pain directly, seeking help, and trusting others to assist; healing emerges through shared mourning.

In simple terms: Face pain, ask for help, trust others.

Key Takeaway

Seek support, share grief.

Themes

grief trust healing

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal loss
  • support groups
  • family crises

Key Concepts

psychology emotional resilience social support

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you safely ask for help?
  • What does trusting others look like for you?
A Different Perspective

Grief may persist without external support or willingness to be vulnerable.

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