Good man Quote by Jane Austen
““Which makes his good manners the more valuable. The older a person grows, Harriet, the more important it is that their manners should not be bad—the more glaring and disgusting any loudness, or coarseness, or awkwardness becomes. What is passable in youth, is detestable in later age. Mr. Martin is now awkward and abrupt; what will he be at Mr. Weston's time of life?””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Mansfield Park, 1814
Manners become increasingly crucial with age; youthful indiscretions become unacceptable later, highlighting the need for refined behavior.
In simple terms: Good manners matter more as we age; rudeness becomes worse.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate refined manners early to avoid later criticism.
Themes
etiquette
age
social perception
personal growth
respect
Mood
thoughtful
didactic
Type
prescriptive
reflective
When to use this quote
- career advancement
- social gatherings
- interpersonal relationships
- personal reputation
Key Concepts
social norms
character development
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you define good manners?
- Can youthful energy be valuable despite rudeness?
A Different Perspective
The quote assumes a universal standard of manners, ignoring cultural differences.
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