Every man Quote by Jane Austen
““Till it does come, you know, we women never mean to have anybody. It is a thing of course among us, that every man is refused, till he offers.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813
Women often claim they seek no marriage, yet societal pressure leads them to accept a suitor once he proposes.
In simple terms: Women say they don’t want marriage but accept a suitor when he proposes.
Key Takeaway
Understand societal expectations versus personal desire.
Themes
courtship
gender roles
societal pressure
Mood
ironic
observational
Type
social
critical
When to use this quote
- arranged marriage negotiations
- dating apps
- family expectations
- career vs. partnership decisions
Key Concepts
marriage market
female agency
economic security
class dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you ever say one thing but act another?
- How does society shape your relationship goals?
A Different Perspective
Women may internalize expectations, limiting authentic choice.
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