Affection Quote by Jane Austen
“Had I been in love, I could not have been more wretchedly blind. But vanity, not love, has been my folly.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Sense and Sensibility, 1811
The speaker blames vanity for their blindness rather than love, suggesting self‑deception stems from pride.
In simple terms: Vanity, not love, blinds you.
Key Takeaway
Recognize pride’s distortion.
Themes
pride
self‑deception
love
vanity
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- self‑reflection
- emotional growth
Key Concepts
psychology
self‑awareness
human folly
Questions to Reflect On
- How does vanity shape your perception?
- What would change if you embraced love honestly?
A Different Perspective
Blindness can also be caused by fear of truth.
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