Heartbreak Quote by Jane Austen
““Every line, every word was -- in the hackneyed metaphor which their dear writer, were she here, would forbid -- a dagger to my heart. To know that Marianne was in town was -- in the same language -- a thunderbolt. -- Thunderbolts and daggers! -- what a reproof would she have given me! -- her taste, her opinions -- I believe they are better known to me than my own, -- and I am sure they are dearer.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813
The speaker feels that the presence of a beloved woman triggers intense emotional reactions, likening them to violent metaphors, and that her tastes dominate his own sense of self.
In simple terms: Love can make emotions feel like weapons and overwhelm personal identity.
Key Takeaway
Recognize how love can amplify feelings and cloud self‑perception.
Themes
love
emotion
identity
influence
Mood
intense
reflective
Type
literary
emotional
When to use this quote
- romantic encounters
- personal reflection
- creative writing
- emotional turbulence
Key Concepts
metaphor
psychology
self‑awareness
Questions to Reflect On
- How does love alter your perception of self?
- When do you let another’s tastes dictate yours?
A Different Perspective
The metaphor may exaggerate emotional intensity, obscuring rational judgment.
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