Be good Quote by James P. Comer
“Children in home-school conflict situations often receive a double message from their parents: "The school is the hope for your future, listen, be good and learn" and "the school is your enemy. . . ." Children who receive the "school is the enemy" message often go after the enemy--act up, undermine the teacher, undermine the school program, or otherwise exercise their veto power.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Power of the Family in Education, 1995
Children receive conflicting messages about school, leading them to rebel when they view it as hostile.
In simple terms: Mixed messages cause kids to act out against school.
Key Takeaway
Provide consistent, supportive messaging.
Themes
education
family dynamics
communication
Mood
concerned
hopeful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parent‑teacher meetings
- school counseling
- family workshops
Key Concepts
psychology
social influence
Questions to Reflect On
- How can families present school positively?
- What strategies reduce perceived school hostility?
A Different Perspective
Parents may struggle to change entrenched beliefs.
