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“I think the worst atmosphere for a six-year-old is one in which there are no expectations whatsoever. That is, it's worse for the child to grow up in a vacuum where "whatever you do is alright, I'm sure you'll succeed." That is a statement of disinterest. It says, "I really have no fantasies for…” quote by James Hillman
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“I think the worst atmosphere for a six-year-old is one in which there are no expectations whatsoever. That is, it's worse for the child to grow up in a vacuum where "whatever you do is alright, I'm sure you'll succeed." That is a statement of disinterest. It says, "I really have no fantasies for you at all."”

James Hillman

About This Quote

Source Book: Re-visioning Psychology, James Hillman, 1995

A child needs clear expectations; a lack of them signals disinterest and hampers development.

In simple terms: Children need expectations to grow.

Key Takeaway

Set clear, supportive expectations for children.

Themes

parenting development expectations

Mood

concerned reflective

Type

advice psychological

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • education
  • childrearing

Key Concepts

psychology motivation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance expectations with freedom?
  • What expectations best nurture a child?
A Different Perspective

Expectations alone cannot replace genuine encouragement.

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