Agreeable Quote by James Goldsmith
“Praise in the beginning is agreeable enough; and we receive it as a favor; but when it comes in great quantities, we regard it only as a debt, which nothing but our merit could extort.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Interview with James Goldsmith, 1990s
Excessive praise feels like a debt rather than genuine merit, diminishing its value.
In simple terms: Too much praise becomes a burden.
Key Takeaway
Value sincere merit over flattery.
Themes
humility
recognition
ego
social dynamics
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- professional feedback
- personal relationships
- leadership
- team management
Key Concepts
psychology
social exchange
self‑esteem
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate genuine appreciation from obligatory praise?
- When does praise become counterproductive?
A Different Perspective
Excessive praise can be insincere and may create expectations.
