Act Quote by James C. Dobson
““Failure to put the relationship on a slower timetable may result in an act that was never intended in the first place. Another important principle is to avoid the circumstances where compromise is likely. A girl who wants to preserve her virginity should not find herself in a house or dorm room alone with someone to whom she is attracted. Nor should she single-date with someone she has reason not to trust. A guy who wants to be moral should stay away from the girl he knows would go to bed with him. Remember the words of Solomon to his son, “Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house” (Proverbs 5:8). I know this advice sounds very narrow in a day when virginity is mocked and chastity is considered old-fashioned. But I don’t apologize for it. The Scriptures are eternal, and God’s standards of right and wrong do not change with the whims of culture. He will honor and help those who are trying to follow His commandments. In fact, the apostle Paul said, “He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear” (1Corinthians 10:13). Hold that promise and continue to use your head. You’ll be glad you did.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Advice on Virginity and Moral Conduct, James C. Dobson, 2005
Advocates strict avoidance of situations that could lead to sexual compromise, citing biblical authority and divine support.
In simple terms: Avoid risky situations to protect moral purity.
Key Takeaway
Set clear boundaries and trust divine guidance.
Themes
purity
boundaries
faith
biblical wisdom
Mood
cautious
serious
Type
spiritual
didactic
When to use this quote
- dating decisions
- living arrangements
- peer pressure
- spiritual counseling
Key Concepts
self‑control
trust
spiritual discipline
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance caution with compassion?
- What support helps you uphold values?
A Different Perspective
Rigid rules may ignore personal context and emotional health.
