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Away Quote by James Agee

“How far we all come. How far we all come away from ourselves. So far, so much between, you can never go home again. You can go home, it's good to go home, but you never really get all the way home again in your life. ... whatever it was and however good it was, it wasn't what you once had been…” quote by James Agee
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“How far we all come. How far we all come away from ourselves. So far, so much between, you can never go home again. You can go home, it's good to go home, but you never really get all the way home again in your life. ... whatever it was and however good it was, it wasn't what you once had been, and had lost, and could never have again, and once in a while, once in a long time, you remembered, and knew how far you were away, and it hit you hard enough, that little while it lasted, to break your heart.”

James Agee

About This Quote

Source Novel: A Death in the Family, 1961

He muses on how distance from our true selves grows, making home feel unreachable, yet returning home offers fleeting comfort that can still hurt.

In simple terms: We drift from ourselves, making home feel distant.

Key Takeaway

Accept change, cherish moments.

Themes

identity home loss memory longing

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

philosophical poetic

When to use this quote

  • family reunions
  • personal crises
  • life transitions

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology nostalgia

Questions to Reflect On

  • What part of yourself have you left behind?
  • Can you find peace without returning home?
A Different Perspective

Returning home may not restore what was lost.

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