““Before writing [the book], I lived out the words. A gay girl once? Yes. Now? I am what God's goodness will do to a soul once grace gets to it. In saying that, I know I've already offended someone... There are many who, while reading, won't understand gayness as something possible of being in the past tense... Gayness.. can be an immovable identity only when the heart is unwilling to bow [to God].””