Children Quote by J.A. Huss
““But I’m desperate for more from her. I’m desperate for something more permanent. And I do understand that it’s totally selfish of me to expect her to give up her dream to make me happy, so that’s something I’d never ask her to do. But it eats away at me. Her lack of permanence. It’s like she’s fleeting, like she’s a moment. Something that comes and goes. I want marriage, I want kids, I want everything I never had as a child, and I want it desperately. But I want her more. I will wait, that was not a lie. I’ll wait forever if I have to.””
About This Quote
The speaker longs for a lasting, traditional relationship while recognizing it may be selfish to demand it from a partner who values freedom.
In simple terms: Desire for permanence clashes with partner’s fleeting nature.
Key Takeaway
Accept the tension and reflect on realistic expectations.
Themes
relationships
desire
selfishness
commitment
Mood
longing
conflict
hopeful
Type
personal
relationship
When to use this quote
- marriage planning
- therapy sessions
- personal reflection
- friendship boundaries
Key Concepts
attachment theory
expectation management
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “permanent” truly mean to you?
- How can you honor both your needs and hers?
A Different Perspective
The partner’s autonomy may limit the possibility of fulfilling these wishes.
