Hatred Quote by Isabel Allende
““I write, she wrote, that memory is fragile and the space of a single life is brief, passing so quickly that we never get a chance to see the relationship between events; we cannot gauge the consequences of our acts, and we believe in the fiction of past, present, and future, but it may also be true that everything happens simultaneously . . . And now I seek my hatred and cannot seem to find it. I feel its flame going out as I come to understand [its] existence . . . It would be difficult for me to avenge all those who should be avenged, because my revenge would be just another part of the same inexorable rite. I have to break that terrible chain. I want to think that my task is life and that my mission is not to prolong hatred but simply fill these pages . . .””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Infinite Plan, 1991
The narrator confronts memory’s fragility, the futility of hatred, and seeks to break cycles of revenge by writing.
In simple terms: Memory is fleeting; hatred must be broken.
Write to transcend hatred.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal trauma
- creative writing
- therapeutic journaling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Can art replace action in healing?
- What breaks the cycle of vengeance?
Writing may not resolve deep trauma alone.