Authentic life Quote by Irvin D. Yalom
““When, on a sea voyage, the ship is brought to anchor, you go out to fetch water and gather a few roots and shells by the way. But you always need to keep your mind fixed on the ship, constantly to look around, lest at any time the master of the ship call, and you must heed that call and cast away all those things, lest you be treated like the sheep that are bound and thrown into the hold. So it is with human life also. And if there be available wife and children instead of shells and roots, nothing should hinder us from taking them. But if the master call, run to the ship, forsaking all those things, and without looking behind. And if thou be in old age, go not far from the ship at any time, lest the master should call, and thou be not ready…The ship and the journey represents an authentic life. We live more authentically if we keep focused on the fundamental fact of sheer being, the miracle of existence itself. If we focus on “being”, then we won’t get so caught up in the diversions of life that is, the material objects on the island, that we lose sight of existence itself. Not falling into the “everydayness’ of life and becoming unfree-like the sheep.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Gift of Therapy by Irvin D. Yalom, 2002
Focus on the essential purpose of life, ignoring superficial distractions, to live authentically and be ready for higher calling.
In simple terms: Stay centered on life's core purpose, not material diversions.
Prioritize being over having.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career decisions
- family responsibilities
- spiritual practice
- end‑of‑life planning
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What truly defines your “ship” in life?
- How do you balance duty with personal attachments?
Neglecting practical needs can jeopardize survival and relationships.