Civilized Quote by Ilka Chase
“in love, gallantry is necessary. Even when the first wild desire is gone, especially then, there is an inherent need for good manners and consideration, for the putting forth of effort. Two courteous and civilized human beings out of the loneliness of their souls owe that to each other.”
About This Quote
Source Play: The Little Man Who Wasn't There, 1935
Politeness and effort remain essential even after initial desire fades, requiring courtesy and consideration.
In simple terms: Good manners matter after passion fades.
Key Takeaway
Practice courtesy consistently.
Themes
courtesy
effort
relationships
Mood
thoughtful
empathetic
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- long‑term partnerships
- friendships
- teamwork
Key Concepts
social etiquette
human connection
Questions to Reflect On
- Can courtesy survive without desire?
- How to show effort when enthusiasm wanes?
A Different Perspective
Politeness may feel forced without genuine feeling.
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