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“In difficult moments it’s sometimes a good idea to ask yourself what it is you most want to be doing and consider how it can be achieved. If it can’t, move on to the second best thing.” quote by Ian McEwan
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““In difficult moments it’s sometimes a good idea to ask yourself what it is you most want to be doing and consider how it can be achieved. If it can’t, move on to the second best thing.””

Ian McEwan

About This Quote

When faced with difficulty, identify your deepest desire, pursue it if possible, otherwise accept a lesser but still meaningful alternative.

In simple terms: Prioritize your true desire, or settle for the next best.

Key Takeaway

Focus on what you truly want, or choose the second best.

Themes

prioritization resilience adaptation

Mood

reflective pragmatic

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career planning
  • personal projects
  • creative pursuits
  • life transitions
  • problem solving

Key Concepts

goal setting self‑reflection decision making

Questions to Reflect On

  • What is your most important goal now?
  • How can you redefine success when the ideal isn’t reachable?
A Different Perspective

Not all desires are feasible; compromise may be necessary.

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