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“Would you think, my dear, anybody might perhaps be spared from taking this path? That perhaps your little son would be spared, because you love him, because you would like to keep him from suffering and pain and disappointment? But even if you would die ten times for him, you would not be able to…” quote by Hermann Hesse
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““Would you think, my dear, anybody might perhaps be spared from taking this path? That perhaps your little son would be spared, because you love him, because you would like to keep him from suffering and pain and disappointment? But even if you would die ten times for him, you would not be able to take the slightest part of his destiny upon yourself.””

Hermann Hesse

About This Quote

Source Novel: Demian by Hermann Hesse, 1919

A parent’s love cannot fully shield a child from suffering; some burdens are inevitable.

In simple terms: Love cannot prevent all pain.

Key Takeaway

Accept limits of protective love.

Themes

parenthood love suffering destiny

Mood

reflective somber

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • caregiving
  • life decisions

Key Concepts

existentialism fate responsibility

Questions to Reflect On

  • What burdens can you truly protect loved ones from?
  • How do you cope with inevitable suffering?
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