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“It is equally impossible to forget our Friends, and to make them answer to our ideal. When they say farewell, then indeed we beginto keep them company. How often we find ourselves turning our backs on our actual Friends, that we may go and meet their ideal cousins.” quote by Henry David Thoreau
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“It is equally impossible to forget our Friends, and to make them answer to our ideal. When they say farewell, then indeed we beginto keep them company. How often we find ourselves turning our backs on our actual Friends, that we may go and meet their ideal cousins.”

Henry David Thoreau

About This Quote

Source Essay: Walden, Henry David Thoreau, 1854

We neglect true friends while chasing abstract ideals, only to realize we miss genuine companionship.

In simple terms: We forget friends for ideals, then miss them.

Key Takeaway

Value real friendships over distant ideals.

Themes

friendship idealism authenticity loss reflection

Mood

nostalgic thoughtful melancholic

Type

philosophical reflective advisory

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • career decisions
  • community building
  • social media interactions

Key Concepts

existentialism social psychology moral philosophy

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you prioritize ideals over people?
  • How can you balance personal values with caring for friends?
A Different Perspective

Ideal pursuit can blind us to present relationships.

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