Ability Quote by Henry Cloud
“When a child shuts down his painful emotional side, he also loses the ability to express his joyous side. Emotions are a whole. With anger comes the ability to express delight; with sadness comes the ability to express lightheartedness. This is the breadth of emotion that allows an adult to experience intimacy with a spouse, with God, and with his children”
About This Quote
Source Book: Changes Every Marriage Needs, Henry Cloud, 2005
Suppressing painful emotions also blocks the expression of joy, limiting emotional range and intimacy.
In simple terms: Blocking pain blocks joy, limiting intimacy.
Allow feeling all emotions for fuller relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- parenting
- personal therapy
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you safely explore painful feelings?
- What joy might you be missing?
Emotions are complex and may be hard to access.