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Ability Quote by Henry Cloud

“When a child shuts down his painful emotional side, he also loses the ability to express his joyous side. Emotions are a whole. With anger comes the ability to express delight; with sadness comes the ability to express lightheartedness. This is the breadth of emotion that allows an adult to…” quote by Henry Cloud
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“When a child shuts down his painful emotional side, he also loses the ability to express his joyous side. Emotions are a whole. With anger comes the ability to express delight; with sadness comes the ability to express lightheartedness. This is the breadth of emotion that allows an adult to experience intimacy with a spouse, with God, and with his children”

Henry Cloud

About This Quote

Source Book: Changes Every Marriage Needs, Henry Cloud, 2005

Suppressing painful emotions also blocks the expression of joy, limiting emotional range and intimacy.

In simple terms: Blocking pain blocks joy, limiting intimacy.

Key Takeaway

Allow feeling all emotions for fuller relationships.

Themes

emotions intimacy balance

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • parenting
  • personal therapy

Key Concepts

psychology emotional health

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you safely explore painful feelings?
  • What joy might you be missing?
A Different Perspective

Emotions are complex and may be hard to access.

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