Haruki-murakami Quote by Haruki Murakami
““She repeated what her mother had told me, that she had been moved when she heard me playing as she passed the house. She had seen me on the street a few times, too, and begun to worship me. She actually used that word: worship. It made me turn bright red. I mean, to be 'worshiped' by such a beautiful little doll of a girl! I don't think it was an absolute lie, though. I was in my thirties already, of course, and I could never be as beautiful and bright as she was, and I had no special talent, but I must have had something that drew her to me, something that was missing in her, I would guess. Which must have been what got her interested in my to begin with. I believe that now, looking back. And I'm not boasting.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: South of the Border, the Beautiful (short story), 1995
The narrator recounts a child's adoration, feeling flattered yet embarrassed, reflecting on personal insecurities and the desire for validation.
In simple terms: A child’s admiration makes the adult feel both proud and shy.
Key Takeaway
Embrace humility while acknowledging impact on others.
Themes
self‑esteem
validation
insecurity
human connection
Mood
introspective
empathetic
thoughtful
Type
literary
psychological
personal
When to use this quote
- interpersonal relationships
- self‑reflection
- creative writing
- literary critique
Key Concepts
psychology of admiration
personal narrative
Questions to Reflect On
- What does this admiration reveal about the narrator?
- How can one balance humility with confidence?
A Different Perspective
Reliance on external validation can hinder authentic self‑worth.
