Acceptance Quote by Hank Nuwer
“Why do so many young people literally die to belong to fraternities, sororities, and other college social organizations? The answer is complicated, but here is a starting point: Ever since the medieval universities were founded, young people have done whatever it takes to gain acceptance, to break with their past lives, to achieve a sense of power, to carve out a society of their own that isn't quite what their tutors and teachers had in mind. In the United States, hazing and drinking have been endemic since colonial days.”
About This Quote
Source Article: The Atlantic, 2020
College social groups promise belonging but often demand dangerous conformity.
In simple terms: Belonging can be risky.
Seek healthy community, question harmful traditions.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- college orientation
- student counseling
- peer mentorship
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do students accept risky rites?
- How can institutions foster safe belonging?
Traditions can be deeply entrenched and resistant to change.