Anger and resentment Quote by Haim G. Ginott
““Parental criticism is unhelpful. It creates anger and resentment. Even worse, children who are regularly criticized learn to condemn themselves and others. They learn to doubt their own worth and to belittle the value of others. They learn to suspect people and to expect personal doom.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Between Parent and Child, 1965
Constant criticism harms children, fostering anger, low self‑esteem, and distrust, which can damage relationships and personal growth.
In simple terms: Criticism hurts kids and relationships.
Key Takeaway
Avoid harsh criticism; use supportive feedback.
Themes
parenting
psychology
communication
Mood
concerned
reflective
Type
parenting
psychological
When to use this quote
- family meals
- school settings
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
self‑esteem
emotional health
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents give feedback without hurting self‑worth?
- What alternatives to criticism exist?
A Different Perspective
Some criticism can be constructive when balanced.
