Heart Quote by Gustave Flaubert
““But the more Emma recognised her love, the more she crushed it down, that it might not be evident, that she might make it less. What restrained her was, no doubt, idleness and fear, and a sense of shame also. She thought she had repulsed him too much, that the time was past, that all was lost. Then pride, the joy of being able to say to herself 'I am virtuous', and to look at herself in the glass taking resigned poses, consoled her a little for the sacrifice she believed she was making.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Madame Bovary by Gustave Flaubert, 1857
Emma suppresses her love due to fear, shame, and pride, convincing herself she is virtuous while sacrificing genuine feeling.
In simple terms: She hides love to appear virtuous, feeling shame and pride.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and accept true emotions rather than self‑deception.
Themes
love
shame
pride
self‑deception
fear
Mood
conflicted
reflective
Type
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- self‑reflection
- personal growth
- mental health
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
psychology
identity
social expectation
Questions to Reflect On
- What emotions are you denying to protect your self‑image?
- How does pride prevent you from feeling vulnerable?
A Different Perspective
Self‑deception can lead to deeper unhappiness and loss of authentic connection.
