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Bitterness Quote by Graham Greene

“Grief and disappointment are like hate: they make men ugly with self-pity and bitterness. And how selfish they make us too.” quote by Graham Greene
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“Grief and disappointment are like hate: they make men ugly with self-pity and bitterness. And how selfish they make us too.”

Graham Greene

About This Quote

Source Novel: The End of the Affair, 1951

Grief and disappointment turn people bitter and self‑absorbed, making them appear ugly.

In simple terms: Bitterness makes us ugly.

Key Takeaway

Avoid self‑pity; seek compassion.

Themes

grief disappointment bitterness self‑reflection

Mood

sad reflective

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • personal loss
  • relationship breakdown
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychology emotional health human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does bitterness affect your relationships?
  • What steps can reduce self‑pity?
A Different Perspective

Self‑pity can hinder healing and growth.

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