“Without getting hurt we will not grow as a person. Yes we feel the pain, sorrow, deep distress, sadness, regret, especially for the loss of someone, the sense of loss guilt and remorse. But it help us to become mature and grow, it prepare us to become more strong mentally, to get to know our self more better, It prepare us for our future challenges that lay ahead in our future! It is just another obstacles that we have to deal with in this life. But it is our best way of learning to become a stronger person. So we can teach our kids about our hurt and trials in our past life, it prepares us to become a better teacher and parent !!”