Egotism Quote by Germaine Greer
“As soon as we find ourselves working at being indispensable, rigging up a pattern of vulnerability in our loved ones, we know that our love has taken the socially sanctioned form of egotism.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Female Eunuch, 1970
When we become indispensable to others, we create dependency that can become egotistical, turning love into a self‑serving dynamic.
In simple terms: Being needed can turn love into ego.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and avoid creating unhealthy dependency.
Themes
relationships
ego
dependency
Mood
analytical
critical
Type
philosophical
reflective
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- family dynamics
- workplace mentorship
- friendship boundaries
Key Concepts
power dynamics
self‑interest
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you feel you are indispensable to anyone?
- How can love stay selfless?
A Different Perspective
Dependency may be unavoidable in close relationships.
