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Alive Quote by Geraldine McCaughrean

“It's true: Everyone needs a reason to stay alive -- someone who justifies your existence. Someone who loves you. Not beyond all reason. Just loves you. Even just shows an interest. Even someone who doesn't exist, or isn't yours. No, no! They don't even have to love you! They just have to be there…” quote by Geraldine McCaughrean
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“It's true: Everyone needs a reason to stay alive -- someone who justifies your existence. Someone who loves you. Not beyond all reason. Just loves you. Even just shows an interest. Even someone who doesn't exist, or isn't yours. No, no! They don't even have to love you! They just have to be there to love! Target for your arrows. Magnetic Pole to drag on your compass needle and stop it spinning and tell you where you're heading and...Someone to soak up all the yearning. That's what I think.”

Geraldine McCaughrean

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Lost City of Z, 1995

Human connection provides purpose and direction, even if imagined or unreciprocated.

In simple terms: We need someone to love us to feel purpose.

Key Takeaway

Seek meaningful connections, real or imagined.

Themes

love purpose existence

Mood

emotional introspective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • mental health
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

psychology human need attachment

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who truly supports you?
  • Can imagined love replace real support?
A Different Perspective

Relying on imagined love may lead to disappointment.

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