Arrangement Quote by Gerald Brenan
“Marriage is an arrangement by which two people start by getting the best out of each other and often end by getting the worst.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Spanish Labyrinth, 1945
Marriage often starts with mutual benefit but can deteriorate into mutual harm if expectations clash.
In simple terms: Marriage can shift from partnership to conflict.
Cultivate mutual respect and communication.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- couples counseling
- family planning
- long‑term commitment
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance give‑and‑take?
- What signs indicate a partnership is becoming harmful?
Idealizing marriage can overlook its challenges.