Burden Quote by Fyodor Dostoyevsky
““Because I couldn't bear my burden and have come to throw it on another: you suffer too, and I shall feel better! And can you love such a mean wretch?””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoyevsky, 1866
A character tries to relieve his own suffering by imposing it on another, revealing selfishness and moral decay.
In simple terms: Shifting pain onto others shows cruelty.
Avoid blaming others for your pain.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- conflict resolution
- personal accountability
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you ever truly escape your own suffering?
- What does it mean to love a person who harms you?
Human empathy can’t be outsourced; responsibility remains personal.