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Beloved Quote by Friedrich Nietzsche

“He wants to be known deep down, abysmally deep down, before he is capable of being loved at all; he dares to let himself be fathomed. He feels that his beloved is fully in his possession only when she no longer deceives herself about him, when she loves him just as much for his devilry and hidden…” quote by Friedrich Nietzsche
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““He wants to be known deep down, abysmally deep down, before he is capable of being loved at all; he dares to let himself be fathomed. He feels that his beloved is fully in his possession only when she no longer deceives herself about him, when she loves him just as much for his devilry and hidden insatiability as for his graciousness, patience, and spirituality.””

Friedrich Nietzsche

About This Quote

Source Essay: "On Love and Self-Understanding", 1885

A man seeks deep self-knowledge before he can be truly loved, demanding honesty and acceptance of both light and dark aspects.

In simple terms: Know yourself deeply to love fully.

Key Takeaway

Seek authentic self-awareness.

Themes

love self-awareness authenticity

Mood

introspective thoughtful

Type

philosophical romantic

When to use this quote

  • therapeutic counseling
  • intimate relationships
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology duality

Questions to Reflect On

  • What parts of yourself do you hide?
  • Can love thrive without full self-knowledge?
A Different Perspective

Idealizes total honesty, which may be unrealistic.

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