Capacity Quote by Frederick Buechner
“Compassion is sometimes the fatal capacity for feeling what it is like to live inside somebody else's skin. It is the knowledge that there can never really be any peace and joy for me until there is peace and joy finally for you too.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Book of Bebb, Vol. 1 by Frederick Buechner, 1975
True empathy can be overwhelming, making one's own happiness depend on another's well‑being.
In simple terms: Empathy can tie your peace to others' peace.
Recognize limits of empathy for self‑care.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling
- conflict resolution
- personal relationships
- social activism
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance caring for others with caring for yourself?
- When does empathy become self‑sacrifice?
Over‑identifying may cause burnout or loss of self.