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Blame Quote by Frank Pittman

“We perversely see mother love as the problem--when it is all we have to sustain us--rather than blaming the fathers who have run out on our mothers and on us. We seem willing to forgive fathers for loving too little even as we still shrink in terror from mothers who love too much.” quote by Frank Pittman
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“We perversely see mother love as the problem--when it is all we have to sustain us--rather than blaming the fathers who have run out on our mothers and on us. We seem willing to forgive fathers for loving too little even as we still shrink in terror from mothers who love too much.”

Frank Pittman

About This Quote

Source Book: "Fatherless Children" (hypothetical)

Society often blames mothers for emotional issues while overlooking absent fathers, despite mothers being the primary source of support.

In simple terms: Mothers are blamed, fathers ignored, despite mothers' essential role.

Key Takeaway

Recognize both parental influences in healing.

Themes

family parenting blame support gender roles

Mood

thoughtful analytical empathetic

Type

psychological sociological

When to use this quote

  • Therapy sessions
  • parenting workshops
  • family counseling
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

Psychology sociology family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can families balance accountability?
  • What role should fathers play in emotional health?
A Different Perspective

Addressing mother’s love alone may not resolve deeper family wounds.

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