Also Quote by Francois Lelord
“Finding love is a fixation now, and that's because although romantic love can sometimes cause a lot of suffering, it can also give people peaks of happiness that come very close to our ideal of 'the happy state.'”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Happiness, 2008
Romantic love can cause pain but also offers moments of joy that approximate an ideal happy state.
In simple terms: Love brings both suffering and joy.
Key Takeaway
Seek balance in relationships.
Themes
love
psychology
well‑being
Mood
thoughtful
optimistic
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- personal reflection
- mindfulness practice
- creative writing
Key Concepts
emotional peaks
suffering
ideal happiness
Questions to Reflect On
- What makes love feel like a ‘happy state’?
- How can we manage love‑induced suffering?
A Different Perspective
Idealizing love may set unrealistic expectations.
