Ask yourself Quote by Fisher Amelie
““Ask yourself something. Have you ever thought about why guys want you gone the next day? It’s not because they’ve got things to do, though I’m sure there are a few assholes who think like that, either because they repeated the folly so often they learned to bury the guilt or because they didn’t have a conscience to begin with but, truthfully, it’s because they can’t stand to look at the reason they feel a hole in their chest. They don’t like reminders of who helped put that sick feeling in the pits of their stomachs. As long as they had a decent mama, the guilt is always substantial. Always. If they say differently, they’re liars." - Spencer Blackwell, GREED””
About This Quote
Source Book: GREED by Spencer Blackwell, 2023
People often avoid confronting painful emotions, especially when they feel guilt or emptiness, by pushing others away or denying their own feelings.
In simple terms: Avoiding pain leads to pushing others away.
Recognize and address your own feelings.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- breakups
- conflict resolution
- personal growth
- mental health counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What emotions are you avoiding?
- How does acknowledging guilt change behavior?
Avoidance can prevent genuine connection and healing.