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Book Quote by Eve Ensler

“Then there was sex, which, for me, was such a need. When I was younger, I had a need to have sex with everyone. I don't know where that was coming from, but there was such a need to connect physically - obviously, for me to connect physically to myself. There were times, like I say in the book…” quote by Eve Ensler
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“Then there was sex, which, for me, was such a need. When I was younger, I had a need to have sex with everyone. I don't know where that was coming from, but there was such a need to connect physically - obviously, for me to connect physically to myself. There were times, like I say in the book, where you lay on top of me, when you push me down, when you're inside me.”

Eve Ensler

About This Quote

Source Book: The Vagina Monologues by Eve Ensler, 1996

The speaker describes a deep, almost compulsive desire for physical intimacy as a way to connect with herself and others, reflecting on how sexual need can be both personal and universal.

In simple terms: A strong urge for physical connection and self‑discovery through sex.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and explore the roots of your intimacy needs.

Themes

identity sexuality self‑discovery connection

Mood

reflective introspective

Type

personal narrative confessional

When to use this quote

  • personal growth
  • therapy
  • relationship building
  • sexual health
  • artistic expression

Key Concepts

psychology human needs embodiment

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does physical intimacy reveal about your sense of self?
  • How can you balance sexual needs with emotional well‑being?
A Different Perspective

Sexual desire can be conflated with emotional fulfillment, leading to confusion or dependency.

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