““When my mother would tell me that she wanted me to have something because she as a child had never had it, I wanted, or I partly wanted, to give it back. All my life I continued to feel that bliss for me would have to imply my mother's deprivation or sacrifice. I don't think it would have occurred to her what a double emotion I felt, and indeed I know that it was being unfair to her, for what she said was simply the truth.””
![“It surprised me to want her [my mother] the most, but I'd never been miserable without her.” quote by Jim Lynch](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/7b6/jim-lynch-30016_mother_it-surprised-me-to-want-her-my-mother-th_897129.jpg)
