Gaze Quote by Esther M. Friesner
““I doubt you cared this much about their feelings when you chose this path,” Iolaus said. He didn’t raise his voice. The truth doesn’t need to be shouted. “Maybe not,” I answered, looking him in the eyes. “But I had to choose it.” “That’s ridiculous.” “No more ridiculous than why you’re ready to sail into the unknown. The only person who needs to chase after the Golden Fleece is Prince Jason, yet you and all the others are joining him for the sake of pure adventure. You hunger for it! Why can’t I?” “Enough.” Iolaus raised his hand. “You win, for your brothers’ sake and because I’ve got the feeling you’d find a way to sneak aboard no matter how much they or I try to stop you. I wish some of the men I know had half your boldness. It’s strange to see it in a girl. Perhaps you’re really Atalanta’s daughter.” My smile answered his. “My nurse, Ione, said I was Zeus’s child.” “My uncle Herakles is supposed to be Zeus’s son. You two must be related. He’s a great one for following his heart first and thinking about the consequences afterward. Or never.” His teeth flashed in the shadows of the old fishwife’s home. “I’ll keep your secret.” “Thank you. You won’t have to do it for very long. You said I didn’t care about my brothers’ feelings when I decided to join this quest. You were right. I’ve only been thinking about what I want.” I took a deep breath. What I was about to say tore at my heart, but I couldn’t escape it. “I’ll go back to Delphi. It’s one thing to take a chance with my own life, but not with so many others.” “Oh, I agree,” Iolaus said. “Which is why I intend to take very good care of my new weapons bearers.””
About This Quote
The speaker wrestles with personal desire versus responsibility to others, acknowledging selfish motives while recognizing the need to protect the group.
In simple terms: Balancing selfish ambition with duty to companions.
Self‑interest clashes with collective responsibility.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- deciding to join a risky project
- choosing personal ambition over group welfare
- confronting a friend about motives
- making a promise to protect others
- reconciling personal desire with duty
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- reflect on personal motives before committing
- communicate openly about intentions
Questions to Reflect On
- What responsibilities do I have to those who depend on me?
- How can I pursue personal goals without harming others?
The speaker’s justification may ignore the real impact on others, making the excuse self‑serving.