Asked Quote by Erich Segal
“But what does he do to qualify as a sonovabitch?” Jenny asked. “Make me”, I replied. “Beg pardon?” “Make me”, I repeated. Her eyes widened like saucers. “You mean like incest?” she asked. “Don’t give me your family problems, Jen. I have enough of my own.” “Like what, Oliver?” she asked, “like just what is it he makes you do?” “The ‘right things’”, I said. “What’s wrong with the ‘right things’?” she asked, delighting in the apparent paradox.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Love Story by Erich Segal, 1970
A character resists being reduced to a label, emphasizing personal agency over family expectations.
In simple terms: People should define themselves, not be defined by others.
Key Takeaway
Assert your own identity.
Themes
identity
agency
family
boundaries
Mood
defensive
conflicted
Type
dialogue
dramatic
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- family gatherings
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
self‑definition
psychology
conflict
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you maintain autonomy in close relationships?
- What boundaries protect your identity?
A Different Perspective
Family expectations can limit personal growth.
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