Deserve Quote by Erich Fromm
“To be loved because of one's merit, because one deserves it, always leaves doubt; maybe I did not please the person whom I want to love me, maybe this, or that - there is always a fear that love could disappear.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Loving, Erich Fromm, 1956
Love based on merit breeds insecurity; unconditional love fosters security.
In simple terms: Merit-based love creates doubt.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate unconditional love.
Themes
love
self-worth
insecurity
Mood
thoughtful
intimate
Type
psychological
philosophical
When to use this quote
- relationships
- parenting
- friendships
Key Concepts
attachment theory
humanistic psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What does love mean to you?
- How can you give love without expectations?
A Different Perspective
Unconditional love is hard to practice.
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