Freedom Quote by Erich Fromm
““The common element in both submission and domination is the symbiotic nature of relatedness. Both persons involved have lost their integrity and freedom; they live on each other and from each other, satisfying their craving for closeness, yet suffering from the lack of inner strength and self-reliance which would require freedom and independence, and furthermore constantly threatened by the conscious or unconscious hostility which is bound to arise from the symbiotic relationship.10 The realization of the submissive (masochistic) or the domineering (sadistic) passion never leads to satisfaction.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Loving, Erich Fromm, 1956
Symbiotic relationships erode personal integrity, creating dependence and mutual hostility, preventing true fulfillment.
In simple terms: Codependent ties weaken independence and cause suffering.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate self‑reliance and healthy boundaries.
Themes
dependence
relationships
psychology
Mood
conflicted
reflective
Type
psychological
philosophical
When to use this quote
- romantic partnerships
- family dynamics
- workplace hierarchies
- friendships
Key Concepts
symbiosis
masochism
sadism
Questions to Reflect On
- How does dependence affect your sense of self?
- What steps can you take toward healthier autonomy?
A Different Perspective
Such dynamics can also provide comfort and security, making change difficult.
