Attached Quote by Erich Fromm
“If I am attached to another person because I cannot stand on my own two feet, he or she may be a life saver, but the relationship is not one of love.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Loving, 1956
Dependence on another for stability is rescue, not love; true love requires independence.
In simple terms: Love needs self‑reliance.
Cultivate personal autonomy.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- therapy
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance support and independence?
- What defines love for you?
Total independence can be isolating.