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“If I am attached to another person because I cannot stand on my own two feet, he or she may be a life saver, but the relationship is not one of love.” quote by Erich Fromm
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“If I am attached to another person because I cannot stand on my own two feet, he or she may be a life saver, but the relationship is not one of love.”

Erich Fromm

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Source Book: The Art of Loving, 1956

Dependence on another for stability is rescue, not love; true love requires independence.

In simple terms: Love needs self‑reliance.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate personal autonomy.

Themes

love dependence self‑reliance

Mood

thoughtful serene

Type

psychological philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • therapy
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

humanistic psychology existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance support and independence?
  • What defines love for you?
A Different Perspective

Total independence can be isolating.

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