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Allies Quote by Eric Hoffer

“We do not usually look for allies when we love. Indeed, we often look on those who love with us as rivals and trespassers. But we always look for allies when we hate.” quote by Eric Hoffer
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“We do not usually look for allies when we love. Indeed, we often look on those who love with us as rivals and trespassers. But we always look for allies when we hate.”

Eric Hoffer

About This Quote

Source Book: The True Believer, 1951

People tend to seek allies in hatred but view fellow lovers as rivals, revealing paradoxes in human social behavior.

In simple terms: We look for allies when hating, but see lovers as competitors.

Key Takeaway

Be aware of bias in how we treat allies and rivals.

Themes

human nature social dynamics paradox

Mood

critical thought‑provoking

Type

philosophical analytical

When to use this quote

  • political movements
  • personal relationships
  • organizational leadership

Key Concepts

in‑group bias conflict psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we distrust those we love?
  • How can we foster collaboration among allies?
A Different Perspective

Such patterns can foster unnecessary conflict.

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