Allies Quote by Eric Hoffer
“We do not usually look for allies when we love. Indeed, we often look on those who love with us as rivals and trespassers. But we always look for allies when we hate.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The True Believer, 1951
People tend to seek allies in hatred but view fellow lovers as rivals, revealing paradoxes in human social behavior.
In simple terms: We look for allies when hating, but see lovers as competitors.
Be aware of bias in how we treat allies and rivals.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- political movements
- personal relationships
- organizational leadership
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we distrust those we love?
- How can we foster collaboration among allies?
Such patterns can foster unnecessary conflict.