Banquet Quote by Epictetus
“Remember that you ought to behave in life as you would at a banquet. As something is being passed around it comes to you; stretch out your hand, take a portion of it politely. It passes on; do not detain it. Or it has not come to you yet; do not project your desire to meet it, but wait until it comes in front of you. So act toward children, so toward a wife, so toward office, so toward wealth.”
About This Quote
Source Philosophy: Discourses, Epictetus, 1st century AD
Behave with patience and humility, taking what is offered without grasping, and wait for opportunities rather than forcing them.
In simple terms: Act politely, accept what comes, and wait for the right moment.
Key Takeaway
Practice patience and humility in all interactions.
Themes
patience
humility
self‑control
social etiquette
Mood
calm
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
practical
When to use this quote
- dining
- child‑rearing
- marriage
- workplace
- financial decisions
Key Concepts
Stoicism
mindfulness
ethical conduct
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance patience with taking initiative?
- When is it appropriate to assert your desires?
A Different Perspective
Over‑emphasis on passivity may hinder proactive initiative.
