Deserve Quote by Emory R. Frie
““I was going to make him proud of the man I would become. I was finally going to chart my own course, rattle the stars, and then… Then I would deserve it.” “Deserve what?” “The way he used to look at me, like I was a hero, or something close to one.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: “Personal Growth Journey” with Emory R. Frie, 2023
The speaker reflects on seeking parental approval while striving for self‑determination, highlighting the tension between external validation and personal achievement.
In simple terms: Balancing desire for approval with own goals.
Pursue your path, not just to please others.
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When to use this quote
- career planning
- therapy sessions
- goal setting
- personal coaching
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What would you achieve without seeking approval?
- How can you define heroism for yourself?
The quote assumes parental approval is essential for self‑worth.